Talking
about sex is no more a dirty secret. Sexual satisfaction is the foundation of a
romantic and healthy relationship.
So let’s
break the silence and talk openly about sexual wellness. In this article, we
will discuss why female sexual satisfaction or female orgasm in essential and
how to make a woman cum.
What’s The Point Of Female Orgasm?
The female
orgasm is always questioned and hotly debated.
Well, it’s a fact that even without having an orgasm a female gets pregnant. But there are two theories to suggest that orgasm in female increases the chance of conception. The first theory is the ‘poleaxe theory’. According to this theory, orgasm makes female relaxed and sleepy. Woman cum makes it easier for the sperm to reach their destination. The second theory is ‘upsuck theory’ that says that the contraction of the uterus helps the sperms to move through the fallopian tubes.
Also, it is suggested that the more extended the foreplay and the time taken by the male member to make a woman cum increases the level of sexual arousal in males and also improves the semen parameter.
Now let us
raise our thoughts above the vital importance of the female orgasm.
Getting intimate with your partner is not always about getting pregnant and having kids. Orgasm is the greatest sensation of the body. It is pleasurable, fun and stress buster. It’s about enjoying intimacy without any guilt to deeper the roots of romance. Orgasm releases certain chemicals and hormone such as oxytocin, DHEA and endorphins that works as relaxants and also studies suggest that these hormones protect against heart diseases and cancer.
And for all the above reasons females too deserve an orgasm.
Why female Orgasm Is
Difficult To Achieve?
Unlike
males, female orgasm is difficult to achieve. Only about 30% of women cum
during intercourse and about 10% of women never reach orgasm. Let us dig the
reason behind.
We conducted
a survey where females discussed their sexual experiences. Women who never had
an orgasm or have difficulty to cum gave the following reasons they thought was
behind:
1. Have a relationship issue with their
partner.
2. Not interested in sex with the partner
3. The partner is not interested in sex
4. Not sufficiently aroused or stimulated
during sex
5. Inadequate lubrication
6. Family or work stress or anxiety
7. Experiencing pain, burning or irritation during sex
8. Not comfortable with her body appearance.
Now that the discussion on female pleasure is out in the open, keeping all above mentioned reasons in mind below we have listed a few tips on how to make a woman cum. However, every woman responds differently to the same touch, so there is no single technique. But yes, the tips given below will surely enhance the chances of female orgasm.
Tips On How To Make A Woman
Cum
1. Maintain a healthy relationship with your partner- First of all, it is very important to focus on your relationship with your partner. Give her time, talk to her. Know about her desires and expectations. Encourage your partner to talk openly about her sexual needs. Make sure there is no pressure on your partner and she is wanting, hoping and willing to have sex. After intimacy, give and ask for honest feedback and discuss what improvements are required.
2. Reduce stress and anxiety- Stress may not let a woman focus on the act. Practicing yoga, meditation and breathing exercises may help to some extent. As a partner, you need to give her emotional support. To reach climax, she should be free from worries and fear, and she should be wholly in the moment.
3. Give
time to foreplay- Foreplay plays an important role in arousing a female.
Longer the foreplay, longer is arousal. Longer the arousal more will be her
intimate parts lubricated. More will be lubrication, less will be burning or
pain and more she will enjoy having sex. Thus, ensure enough foreplay.
4. Boost
her confidence and self esteem– Make your partner feel as if she is the
most beautiful person for you. It doesn’t matter if she is fat, skinny or has
marks on her body. You have fallen for her because you love her and her body.
5. Stimulate
the clitoris– Clitoris a sensitive area with thousands of nerve endings. In
comparison to other genital areas clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve. Rub, lick
or gently touch clitoris. Do whatever your partner enjoys.
6. Try different positions and add variety to
act- Try multiple position and techniques. Discuss with your partner the position
and act she enjoys best.
Sex is much
more than just having intercourse with your partner. It is about mutual
consent, about understanding the need of each other’s body, about exchanging
trust and intimacy. Sex is about the desire to achieve mutual satisfaction so
make it a pleasant experience.

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